Welcome to the fourth episode of Level Up Your Selfie—where we cut the BS, embrace the mess, and turn our lives into magical masterpieces, one selfie at a time. And what better way to kick off this journey than by getting into a relationship with the most important person in your life—YOURSELF.
That’s right, babe. Before you start swiping left or right, before you manifest your dream partner, or dive into another situationship, it’s time to Date Your Selfie First. Why? Because the love you seek starts with YOU.
But… What Does It Even Mean to Date Your Selfie?
Think about it: when you’re dating someone, you take the time to get to know them, shower them with attention, plan cute little surprises, and actually LISTEN to them. Now ask yourself—when was the last time you treated yourself that way?
Dating your selfie means:
✨ Prioritizing YOUR needs, desires, and dreams.
✨ Taking yourself on dates (yes, solo dates are a vibe!).
✨ Hyping yourself up in the mirror instead of tearing yourself down.
✨ Setting standards for how you allow others to treat you.
✨ Choosing yourself FIRST without guilt.
The way you show up for yourself sets the tone for how others will show up for you. If you’re constantly ghosting your own needs, tolerating the bare minimum, or waiting for someone else to make you feel worthy, it’s time for a serious glow-up intervention.
The Selfie Healing Challenge: Fall in Love with YOU
This week, I’m challenging you to take yourself on a Selfie Date. Whether it’s a cozy coffee shop moment, a museum visit, or a night in with your favorite playlist, dress up, show up, and romance yourself. Snap a selfie while you’re at it and tag me @angelina.milajki so I can hype you up!
💖 Bonus challenge: Write a love letter to yourself. Tell yourself all the things you wish someone else would say to you. Read it in the mirror. Feel the magic.
Final Words: Your Selfie Deserves the Spotlight
Your relationship with yourself is the foundation for every other relationship in your life. When you love, respect, and prioritize YOU, you attract people who do the same. So, let’s stop settling, start glowing, and make this the year we show up for ourselves like never before.
Press play on Episode 4 🎧, take that selfie, and remember: you are the main character. Time to act like it. 😉
💋 Stay glowing,
Ai-ngelina Mi Lajki
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