You ever go through something so big, so life-shattering, that you expected people to show up—only to find that your inbox was as empty as your fridge on a Sunday night? Yeah, me too.
If not for my mom, I would have been homeless. That’s the truth. When everything in my life collapsed—my business, my marriage, my finances—she was the one who caught me before I hit rock bottom. No hesitation. No conditions. Just pure, unwavering love. She is my rock.
But the hardest part? Realizing who wasn’t there.
I had friends I thought would check in, send a message, ask if I was okay. They didn’t. People I’d celebrated, supported, been there for—silent. No texts. No calls. Nothing.
And then… the unexpected happened.
🌈 My newfound unicorn tribe showed up. Not just with “thinking of you” texts, but real, deep, soul-saving support. For seven hours straight, I was on the phone with people who had walked into my life more recently—but showed up like they had been there forever. They didn’t let me drown in the silence left by those I once thought would always be in my corner. They reminded me of my strength, my light, and my magic.
Finding Out Who Really Matters
Friendship isn’t about how long you’ve known someone. It’s about who’s there when life isn’t easy.
🚩 Some people are there when it’s fun and effortless.
✨ The real ones? They show up when it’s messy, when you’re struggling, when you’re at your worst.
The ones who matter don’t just like your Instagram posts—they check in, they listen, they hold space. They don’t make you feel like a burden. They don’t disappear when you’re not at your best. And most importantly? They remind you of your power, even when you forget it yourself.
🌟 How to Recognize Your Unicorn Tribe
Not everyone deserves access to your energy, so here’s how to spot the real ones:
✔️ They genuinely celebrate your success—not secretly compete with you.
✔️ They make space for your emotions, even the messy ones.
✔️ They check in—not just when it’s convenient.
✔️ They remind you of your power when you feel weak.
✔️ They love you for who you are, not what you can do for them.
Sometimes, your strongest supporters aren’t the ones who’ve known you forever—but they love you like they have. These are the people who will help you rebuild.
Letting Go of the Ones Who Aren’t There
Let’s be real—letting go is hard. It feels personal. It makes you question everything. But here’s the truth: It’s not about you. It’s about them—their emotional capacity, their priorities, their ability to show up. And you deserve better than one-sided connections.
💡 How to Release with Love
🌿 Accept that not everyone is meant to stay.
🌊 Let go of the need for closure—not everyone can give it.
✨ Focus on those who pour into you, not those who drain you.
💖 Remember: Losing the wrong people makes room for the right ones.
Your Tribe is Out There
If you’ve ever felt like you’re walking this journey alone, I promise you—your people are out there. Sometimes, they find you in unexpected places. Sometimes, they arrive when you least expect it. But one thing is certain: You deserve friendships that feel safe, supportive, and soul-deep.
So here’s to the ones who got your back—may we find them, may we cherish them, and may we never waste another second chasing people who don’t see our worth.
💖 Who’s someone in your life who’s truly had your back? Tag them, text them, or send them love today.
🎧 Want more on this topic? Listen to Episode 12 of the Level Up Your Selfie Podcast! [Insert link here]
💌 And if you're ready to reclaim your power, follow at @angelina.milajki. drop a ‘GLOW-UP’ in the comments and grab my free blueprint to help you level up. 📝✨
And as always—Extra RainbOH!w Sparkles Upon You! 🌈✨ And Good Vibes OH!nly. 💖🌟🚀✨
//Angelina Mi Lajki
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