๐๏ธ Ghosted, Forgotten, Erased? โ How to Take Back Your Power ๐คฃ๐ ๐ฅโจ**
Mondays are for fresh starts, so Iโm dropping this extra episode to help you reclaim your power and step into the week like the main character you are. ๐ฅ If youโve ever been ghosted, abandoned, or left questioning your worth, this one is for you. Because being left behind doesnโt mean you disappearโit means you rise. ๐
Thereโs a special kind of heartbreak that comes with being ghosted after 25 yearsโwhen the person who knew you best, the one who held your history, suddenly vanishes as if you never existed. No goodbye, no explanationโjust poofโgone. ๐๐ And two years later? Heโs in another country, slipping a ring on someone elseโs finger ๐ while Iโve been here, holding it all together. ๐คฏ So what do you do when the witness to your life disappears?
Iโll tell you what you donโt do: โ You donโt shrink. You donโt disappear. You donโt let their silence define your worth. You take your damn power back. โก๐ฅ
When someone you loved, trusted, and built a life with walks away without a trace, itโs not just rejectionโitโs erasure. They leave, but they take something with them: the version of you that existed in their eyes. ๐ตโ๐ซ
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The one they saw dream big and fight for everything. ๐ญ๐ช
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The one who stayed up late building a future. โณ๐ ๏ธ
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The one who went through hell and still stood tall. ๐๐ฅ
And suddenly, you wonder: Who am I without the person who knew me best? ๐
We attach so much of our identity to the people around us. Itโs human nature. But when those people disappear, weโre left staring at the wreckage, wondering if we were ever real to them at all. Thatโs where the trap is. ๐จ
Because hereโs the truth: You do not need someone elseโs memory of you to exist. ๐ฏ You were never erased. Their absence does not define your presence. You are STILL HERE. And that means itโs time to become your own witness. ๐๐
So, how do you reclaim yourself when the one who knew you best is gone? You do it by writing your own damn comeback story. ๐โจ
๐ฅ Step 1: Stop Waiting for Answers That Will Never Come โโณ
Ghosting is cowardly. Itโs what people do when they canโt face themselves, let alone the wreckage they left behind. They are not coming back with an apology or a TED Talk titled โHow I Messed Up.โ ๐ค๐ซ
Waiting for closure is like waiting for a ship that already sank. Close the door yourself. ๐ช๐
๐ฅ Step 2: Be Your Own Damn Witness ๐ธโจ
Your memories, your experiences, your growthโthey are YOURS. Document yourself. Write it down. Take selfies. Be the proof of your own journey. ๐๏ธ๐
๐ฅ Step 3: Take Up Space Again ๐๐
When someone walks away, itโs easy to feel small, unseen. Make yourself seen. Not for them, but for YOU. Step into the light. Post the picture. Say the thing. Live LOUD. ๐๏ธ๐ฅ
๐ฅ Step 4: Cut Off the Energy Supply ๐๐ซ
The moment you stop checking their social media, stop replaying the last conversation, stop looking for hidden meanings in their actionsโyou take your power back. Block, delete, unfollow, detach. ๐โ You are not a side character in their next chapter.
๐ฅ Step 5: Turn the Pain Into Fuel ๐ฅโฝ
They left? Good. Let that be the spark for your next evolution. โจ Youโre still standing, and now you have the opportunity to rebuildโon your terms. And this time, YOU are the main character. ๐๐
๐ Their absence doesnโt delete your story.
๐ Their silence doesnโt define your worth.
๐ And the only validation you need? Is your own damn reflection.
Go look in the mirror today and say this out loud: ๐ค "I am STILL HERE. I am STILL ME. And no oneโnot even the ones who leftโcan take that away from me." ๐ฅโจ
๐ If this hit home for you, share it with someone who needs this reminder: You were NEVER erased.
๐ And if you're ready to reclaim your power, follow at @angelina.milajki. drop a โGLOW-UPโ in the comments and grab my free blueprint to help you level up. ๐โจ
๐ Sending you ALL the rainbow sparkles and good vibesโbecause your glow-up is already in motion. ๐๐โจ
And as alwaysโExtra RainbOH!w Sparkles Upon You!ย ๐โจ Andย Good Vibes OH!nly.ย ๐
//Angelina Mi Lajki
